Category: RELATIONSHIPS

Why You Should Not Feel Guilty For Leaving

Before we jump in, I want to make sure we understand what feeling guilty means; self doubt, or feeling like you did something wrong in some case. So this piece is for my single moms who are or may be single because they walked away from a toxic or otherwise unfulfilling relationship. I walked away […]

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I’ve got, Momopause! What About You?!

Yoooo… I think… I have Momopause! What the heck is Momopause?! I bet, you got it too! Let’s go back … back into time. Remember when you were a teenager and you started “smelling yourself” or “thinking you were grown”. Your Mom told you to clean up your room, you said yes ma’am but your […]

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When Co-Parenting Goes Right!

Communication is key! But it is also essential and mandatory when it comes down to co-parenting. Us, parents have to maintain it (or at least try to make an effort) for the sake of our children. Regardless of how the relationship or marriage ended, we have to let that shit go and learn how to […]

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Weekends with Dad

Let me ask you this? And be honest. When your child left home for the first time to spend the weekend with his/her Dad, how did you react? I cried profusely to the point that I hyperventilated when my son left for the weekends to be with his Dad. My emotional reaction didn’t have anything […]

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Choosing Between Marriage and Divorce

Most little girls dream of having big weddings, but I wasn’t that little girl who dreamed of being married or having children. Solely because I watched my parents struggle throughout their marriage and they remained married because of me. Even as a child, I refused to be that person or that wife! I wanted to […]

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SquadGoals: How to Attract The Right Group of Friends

Most of us grew up with the friendships we still have today, but when you are growing it’s sometimes difficult to recognize the people that are friends and the people that aren’t. Because we want to believe that the people that have always been there will always be there. True friends support your growth. They […]

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TrueStory Tuesday Relationships: Flag On The Plate

Don’t miss these red flags. When you begin a new relationship you miss a lot. You’ve got these butterflies and everything in the world is good right now; morning texts telling you to have a good day, surprise gifts just because and then one day something happens. You brush it off because all there couldn’t […]

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“I’m Not Married Because I Didn’t Set That Standard”

Standards, a set of rules we put in place to keep us from settling, accepting less than we deserve. Growing up, I learned very little about standards and how to set them let alone, stand on them. I didn’t know the first thing about being in a relationship nor did I know how to be […]

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His Leaving Is Not Your Fault Or Your Responsibility

We’ve all been there, in love only to find out that we’re pregnant — he– later finding out that not only is he not ready to be a father, but he’s actually scared.  Now bare with me, I’m not giving him an out nor am I excusing his leaving, but what I will agree with […]

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